Tuesday, February 26, 2013

A Question of Perspective and "Centering"

Comment allez vous, nos amies? (How are you, our friends?)

Our greetings and our hope that all is well for you and for those you love.  We have been serving as missionaries for almost 71/2 months now.  In ways we feel like we just left home and, in other ways, we feel as if we have been here forever.  Our life is different than it was in North Ogden; the experiences we are having here, we would never have had anyplace else.  Are we happy?  Very!  Is it challenging?  Definitely.  Do we have our moments?  Well, let me put it this way:  I try never to look at chubby little calves or tiny sandaled feet toddling down the sidewalk...too difficult.  But would I change anything?  Not a chance.  We pray daily, and know with faith, that our being here will, hopefully, strengthen the legs of those we love and cherish to stand in holy places and will help plant their feet on the solid ground of the Gospel.  Not a doubt, this is where we need to be.

We had an experience recently that made me pause.  Brent got a call from one of the companionships with a question:  How is the branch piano supposed to be used?  It seems that one of the members, I'm sure with the best of intentions, had become upset because, after church, some of the youth were playing the piano; not banging or anything like that, just playing songs.   He felt that the piano should only be used for church hymns, by those called to play.  The missionaries didn't know quite how to handle it.  Brent told them that the piano was for the use of the members.  That as long as it was treated it with respect, it could be played by anyone.  In fact, if the youth wanted to take piano lessons, they were welcome to come to the church to practice as long as an adult was with them.  He told them to explain the policy to the branch president and carry on.  I have been thinking a lot about that lately in connection with perspective.  How easy it is to get just "a little" off center in our thinking; I use myself as an example.

In our last post, I talked about the VERY TIGHT timeline we experienced when President Adams was here and a new district presidency was called.  I, having a tendency to more like Martha than Mary, just felt relieved when it was all over and the work needing to be done, was just that...done.  But later, as I thought about all of it, I realized what a miracle had just taken place.  President Adams had come from 500 miles away to talk with priesthood leaders he barely knew.  After deliberation and prayer, in the same afternoon as the interviews, a new president was called, who in turn, without leaving the building, just kneeling in prayer in another room with his wife, handed in the names of his two counselors, who came as quickly as they could to be interviewed.  One came in levies because, living so far away, he couldn't go home to change.  We have watched in awe as the mantle of leadership has fallen on them:  their enthusiasm, their love, the direction of the Lord in their going forward, ways members have been touched already. It was a miracle that I needed to recognize more fully to "center" myself yet again.

Because the missionary work is so very difficult here, with few outward signs of success, we often remind the missionaries to daily watch for the hand of God in their lives.  "How has He helped you, lifted you, led you, strengthened you, or blessed you that you might not have recognized?  Watch for, remember, and write them down so they will not be overlooked because of the things that didn't happen."  Sometimes we feel so alone and inadequate; we all need the "centering" of recognizing how many ways we are guided and helped each day...not in the major ways, but in the small and simple ways that show our Heavenly Father's hand and love in our lives.

Lowlight of the week:  One of the sister missionaries, who is impeccable in her appearance, found out that she had head lice.  She probably picked it up by leaning her head back on the couch of an investigator.  To complicate the matter, we had exchanges that week so not only was her companion exposed, but also another sister missionary who spent the day and night with her.  We quickly became experts on what to do and made sure that everyone did EXACTLY THAT!  She was devastated, but all is well now.  Brent said, "I think my head is itching!"  I laughed.

Highlight of the week:  One of the sister missionaries, who came to La Reunion from Madagascar, had an English program with her called The Companionship Study Program.  She is Tahitian and speaks very little English.  Her companion found it, leafed through it, and asked me about it.  I called Madagascar and found out that if she completes the assignments and passes a specified test - that we can proctor - she can use the results on resumes, etc. to show English competency and, also, it will help prepare her for college entrance exams.  None of our other Tahitian missionaries knew anything about it.  We immediately ordered the program for all of them and they are very excited to have this opportunity.  Another one of those HUGE blessings because a sister missionary paid attention and asked some needed questions.

Photo Gallery:

The branch at St Marie had a "Parole de Sagesse" (Word of Wisdom) Saturday activity.  We all walked to a park, played games together, and ate healthy snacks.  The man in the white shirt is Frere Ferrier, the branch president., who is now the district president. 

Juice and oranges at the park.

A while ago, we posted a picture of Alexandra's baptism.  Well, now we are posting a picture of her wedding to one of the branch members.  It was such a happy, happy occasion.  All of the branch members helped with the decorations, food, clean up, etc.

Helping in the kitchen at the wedding.

President Poncherville, of the St Paul branch, a former South African soccer player, invited Brent to a Saturday morning ocean fishing trip.  No reels, just poles, lines,  and a lot of fun.  A great friend and valued member.

Le couple missionaire at the wedding feast.

"The boys" enjoying a Creole lunch, rice, beans, and sausage (tasty, but not very healthy) after a morning of fishing.  Interesting sidelight:  the man in the red hat, who doesn't speak French, just Creole, told Brent that he fed and supported his family by going out in the ocean everyday in a small rowboat, alone, and fishing with just a line and hook, no pole.  Brent said that his hands were totally calloused; they bonded instantly.  Quite a history...the original Old Man and the Sea.

The fishermen as they all met another day.  We had just attended a baptism and they were getting ready for the "soccer game" between the branches.  Make no mistake, it was serious business, with all ages participating.  BTW, it ended in a tie.

Helene Chion-Hock's baptism.  Her grandparents, who were in school in France as a young couple, became interested in the church after seeing a handmade poster made by the missionaries "Families are forever".  They talked to the missionaries, took the lessons, were baptized,  finished school, and returned to La Reunion, where they were the only members.  They taught and converted many others and the rest is history.  They are a wonderful family and a foundation for the church here.  He now serves as a patriarch on the island, which doesn't generally happen until a stake is created.  But we have one here, and he is such a blessing.

A Bientot, thank you so much for your interest in...

The Castaways

Saturday, February 16, 2013

Some Days Are Diamonds; Some Days are Stones

Bon jour nos amies. Ca va bien?    (Hello our friends; are you well?)

Remember the old John Denver song? (Blog title)  Brent and I laughed a while ago and started singing that song  because it perfectly describes our days here.  Some days really do glitter and shine, like diamonds, and we carefully tuck them away in our mental file.  Other days are just better over:  days when we are saying, "WHAT?  They really did/said that?  President Adams wants WHAT?  WHAT are we going to say to them?  WHAT will happen now?  WHAT are they thinking?  WHAT in the world are we going to do about that?" Open the window, take a deep breath of humidity, and just keep calm and carry on!

The hurricane abated with only torrential rains; President Adams arrived on Sunday instead of Thursday, and we squeezed five days of work into three, and, as always, ca march!  (It works)  We had  the Saturday zone conference on Monday - yes, Pday - with 6 1/2 hours of teaching by President Adams, all in French.  I can remember dreading those days, but this conference was very enjoyable for me.  Because he is American, President Adams speaks slower than the members here, and I could actually understand most of what was said for the entire day.  Usually after lunch when the stress of feeding the missionaries is over (will there be enough without wasting money by making too much?)  I have been known to have a blank stare all afternoon, but, this time, I was focused all day.  Brent, of course, is always focused, but he did jump at the opportunity of leaving the meetings to take a trip to the store when I found that my sour cream had mold on the top.  "I'd be MORE than happy to help you out!"

The zone conference seemed minor to what took place next.  The District Presidency had to be released, so there were beaucoup, beaucoup men who had to be interviewed.  All of those interviews had to be done on Monday and Tuesday, with the new District President called Tuesday afternoon.  His counselors had to be called and interviewed Tuesday evening because President Adams was  leaving the next morning.  On Sunday Brent traveled to all of the branches to have the new presidency sustained, with  President Adams coming in again on Sunday night to set them apart.  The district reorganization necessitated the reorganization of two new branch presidencies, who were chosen on Sunday evening and interviewed on Monday, followed by a LONG training session for the new district presidency Monday night.  This Sunday, Brent will travel again to the two branches to sustain the new branch presidencies and then everyone will be in place, for a minute.  Whew! Were you able to follow all of that?  We barely could.

Lowlight of the week:  Well, we finally saw it...a babouk...the large spider that we read about before we came here.  We were coming home, with the Adams, after one of those late night sessions, and it was spread across the wall in the stairwell.  I wanted to put my hand somewhere near it so that you could get an idea of its size - maybe a volleyball? - but I had heard that they are amazing jumpers, and I had visions of it jumping on my chest, so I decided otherwise.  We did hit the wall to make it move, and, wow, can they run!  We couldn't believe that anything with such long legs could move so fast.  Funny side light:  one of the apartment doors on that level was slightly open because the people have a cat that likes to go in and out.  The spider ran across the wall, zipped around the door and into their apartment!   It makes me shudder to think of seeing him sitting on the couch!


Highlight of the week:  The sister missionaries had exchanges this week.  The one exchange companionship stopped by the apartment about 9:30 PM - the time they are supposed to be home for the night - to tell us that they were going leave to meet the other companionship and switch back, which meant traveling about forty kilometers down the coastal highway.  Brent said not to go, it was too late,  to do it in the morning, but to call the others to let them know the plan.  Then he said, "But I want you on the road by 4:30 in the morning."  (You know how Brent teases.)  Well, these two sisters are Tahitians and didn't understand the humor.  A few minutes later we got a frantic phone call from the other companionship saying, "Do they REALLY have to leave at 4:30?  Can't they come just a little bit later?"  Brent couldn't believe that they thought he was serious, so we called them down, explained, and laughed for 10 minutes.  They really were planning on following directions and leaving by 4:30.  How cute is that?

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Zone conference meal...Mexican goulash...a family favorite.  I made quacamole from scratch with local avacados.  I don't love quacamole, but this was fantastic!!!!  Some of the foods here we will really miss; we have never tasted such flavor.

There he is; I wish you could get an accurate perception of his size.  By the way...Brent is afraid of snakes, but I am afraid of SPIDERS.

For Christmas, Sister Adams had ties made in Madagascar for all of the elders, scarves for the sisters, and we gave them the Adams' gifts at the Christmas party.  We thought it would be fun if they all showed up at the zone conference wearing their gifts...hence the photo.

On Tuesday, we had about five hours before all the interviews began, so we got up early, headed for the mountains for a short hike and then down to the beach for a some ice cream.  Sister Adams said, "That water looks so good.  I love walking along the beach with the water splashing on my feel."  Guess who said, "Take off your shoes, we're going in!"?

I loved this little drawing in one of the primary rooms.  The scripture, the hearts, the smiling faces, and especially the little girl with the mermaid body.  I guess she is sitting down.  Isn't that SO cute?

Elder Heap waiting out the downpour.  It can rain so hard, but you know that if you wait five minutes, you will be able to make a run for it without being drenched for the whole day.

There are a lot of feral dogs here and this one, sitting on top of a mailbox, needed to be remembered.  Really kind of cute in a scruffy sort of way, but I sure wouldn't want to try to pet him.

We are thinking, two days after Valentine's Day, of those we love and who play such an important part in our lives . We are blessed with a wonderful family, whose love always lifts and sustains us.  We have many friendships that are constant and treasured.  We know that God loves all of us and that He is there for us at every turn in the road.
 Love, the greatest gift.

A bientot!

The Castaways