Saturday, June 22, 2013

The Things We Don't Know...For Now

Bonjour notre famille et nos amis chez nous, ca va?

Tonight we are going to gaze into the night (if the sky is clear) and enjoy the "Super Moon" reflected on the Indian Ocean.  The Super Moon: when the full moon coincides with the closest approach the moon makes to earth during its elliptical orbit.  I don't know if tonight's moon will really be any different than other beautiful full moons we try to always appreciate, but it will be our only occasion to have this opportunity here, in the southern hemisphere, like so many other experiences we are blessed with each day.  Is the moon bigger, brighter?  We don't know...yet.  So many things we don't know...yet.

Last Sunday, we visited the branch in St. Pierre and had the pleasure of dining with a very special member there.  She is Chinese, about seventy-eight years old, the branch Primary president, and probably one of the most active missionaries on the island.  A delightful dynamo.  During the course of the meal, she looked at all of us and asked to share "une petite histoire" (a small story) with us, some of which we knew and some of which were unfamiliar.  Her brother, with his wife and very young family, was living in France during the seventies, going to school.  He was walking down the street and saw a handmade sign which read, "Families can be together forever".  Interested, he approached the missionaries holding the sign and began asking them questions.  They taught him the gospel, and later, before he returned to his home on La Reunion, he and his wife were baptized.  When he returned, he taught his sister the gospel (our hostess) and she and her family were the first members baptized on this island.  President Edmonds of the International Mission was assigned here around that time, and missionary work really began.  The brother was the first branch president, later the first district president, and is now the patriarch, an icon here of faith and leadership. Fast forward about, oh, about twenty years.  The brother, wanting his children to have a good education and friends in the church, sent his oldest daughter to BYU.  She was on campus one day and someone called out her full - first and last - name.  A BYU professor, walking along, heard that name, recognized it from years ago (remember, it is a Chinese name), and literally ran over to her.  "Is your name.......?"  "Yes."  "Do you know (the brother's name)?"  "Yes, he is my father."  "Are you a member of the church?" With palms up in surprise, "Of course!  We are ALL members of the church.  There are three branches on Reunion now."  The man was awestruck.  He was one of the initial missionaries to teach the young investigator in France, had been transferred and had gone home before the baptism, and had never known that the man had accepted the Gospel.  He had baptized no one on his mission, and although it had been a great experience for him, had always felt unsuccessful in that area.  When the brother came to America, probably for his daughters graduation, I really don't know, the two men reunited and shared their stories.  I looked over at the two elders with us, realizing that their feelings were much like the young elder who left France not knowing until years later...yet...what seeds had been planted and what fruit  produced from one small handwritten sign and many evening lessons.  There are so many things we don't know...yet...that they don't know...yet...maybe not known even in this lifetime, but our prayer was that the elders were taught by the Spirit the lesson of the effort, not always just the seemingly end result, and the power of time and personal commitment in changing the lives of others.  There are many things we don't know...yet.

Lowlight of the week:  One of our outstanding zone leaders had reached the conclusion of his time here.  President and Sister Adams flew in for the departure dinner.  Everyone was excited for a wonderful evening together.  It was a smaller dinner this time; only one elder leaving, which is rare, so the dinner included him and his companion, the Adams, and us.  SO FUN; I love these dinners!  Fresh flowers from the morning market on the table, a yummy menu planned, with a couple of things I knew he especially liked:  salad with deviled eggs.  We had a prayer and I excused myself to finish the main course while everyone ate their salads.  I returned with the rest of the meal as everyone was finishing up the salad, and I began eating mine.  It tasted great, but "crunch, crunch" my teeth kept encountering grit; what IS this?  The lettuce had been washed.  Well maybe it was just mine...  Brent cleared the salad plates and we met in our tiny kitchen.  "Was your salad gritty?"  He smiled.  "Well, let me put it this way, I could hear President Adams crunching like he was eating sand." OH NO...oh, well; like Scarlett O'Hara, "I'll worry about that tomorrow!"

Highlight of the week:  You know how every once in a while things just happen right?  We had one of those times the day after the departure dinner when we took the elder to the airport.  It had been a great day.  He had worked right up to the end orienting four new missionaries that had arrived that morning, got himself packed and off we all headed to the airport, the new zone leader companionship, the Adams, and us.  We took photos, hugged, said our goodbyes, and watched him as he reached the security check-in.  Perfect. Oh, oh, he is searching through his pockets; NOW he is searching through his carry-on; now he is RE-searching his carry-on; something is definitely WRONG.  He walks back to us.  "I don't have my wallet and it has my identification card in it." (along with a credit card, about 400 euros, a temple recommend signed by his mission president, etc)  He could check-in without his identification card, but didn't want to loose his wallet.  My thoughts: all of those things can be replaced, but I don't want the memory of his last hours - not to mention his flight home -  to be stress-filled.  The questions:  when did you last have it, etc?  Brent, never being one to be indecisive, asked, "What is the last moment you can check in?" then turned to the zone leaders and said, "Go home as fast as you can without breaking any laws and see if it is there."  Zoom, off they went.  Waiting...waiting...waiting; silent prayers all around.  Phone rings.  Brent is expressionless; looks at the elder; still no expression, time stands still; we are all breathless. BIG SMILE.  "They have it and they are on their way. " The biggest sigh of relief I have ever heard.  Wallet delivered at the curb...happy elder rechecking in...wallet in pocket! THANK YOU!

PHOTO GALLERY:
P-day visit to the statue of the Hindu God Shiva on the island of Mauritius.  We have a difficult time obtaining visas for the missionaries there because the Hindu government officials  aren't in a hurry to have Christian missionaries teaching their people.

Lunch with the missionaries on Mauritius...in rupees which comes to about $21.00, but you gulp when you first see the bill.

The young man in the picture was baptized a few months ago and now his sister wants to become a member.

Wednesday's new addition to the missionary force on La Reunion.  I think I'm getting shorter!

The jet-lagged new elders with their companions and the zone leaders.

Leaving for home and these are his GOOD shoes!

The wallet is found; relief for all


Primary in St Pierre with our hostess.

Happy Birthday to you!

I wanted to show you two things with this picture.  Of course, the beautiful bank of flowers, but also, look at the gutter. It is about two feet deep here and as the road turns the corner there is no space at all between the white line and the gutter.  In many places the gutters are 4 feet deep and on both sides of a two lane road (because of torrential rains).  No place to go if a car takes a wide turn and is on YOUR side of the road.   
Each day is a new adventure and a new blessing of learning, depending, seeking, and believing.  This mission was definitely a step out of our comfort zone and we are still functioning out of it, but the things we now know seem to be slightly more than the things we don't know, and we are ever grateful for it all.

                                                                              Love,

                                                                       The Castaways

Sunday, June 9, 2013

The Bright Badge of Busyness

Bonjour et bisous a tous,

Bisous:  the French custom of kissing EVERYONE on both cheeks upon greeting.  I can't bisous men and Brent can't bisous women and WON'T bisous men, but I have to say that I have become quite comfortable with the bisous...so if I kiss both your cheeks without thinking when I first get home, be patient; I've been doing it for eighteen months!  There are probably some other customs we have picked up - like using one's knife to push food onto one's fork - that we don't even think about now which will be apparent later when we are the only ones doing it; interesting adjustments.  Many things to think about.

I have been thinking a lot lately about "the bright badge of busyness" since we just finished many days being extremely so.  We had a six hour Missionary Zone Conference with the mission president, lunch included, of course.  The General Authority arrived that evening (we were misinformed that his plane would touch down at 7:30, but he really didn't arrive until 11:30 PM), which kicked off two days of  meetings, interviews, and several sessions of leadership training, plus the Saturday night and Sunday general sessions of District Conference.  An extremely tight schedule with many items to cover and people to see...the bright badge of busyness.  We were so impressed and touched with all that he had to do, Elder Bricknell never seemed hurried.  He took time to greet everyone personally, with warmth and a big bear hug.  His demeanor radiated love for what he was doing and enthusiasm for every meeting, no matter how short or how long.  Saturday morning, he asked to meet with those who were struggling, which led to a very personal meeting for six hours after the Sunday session, to help solve a problem that had existed on this island for several years.  I guess what I am saying is that he took the time to address those issues that really had deep meaning for some people here, not just to address the "busy"agenda.  He and his wife's charming South African accent, joyous laughter, and wise counsel boomed in our ears for two days.  The example he left with us of total commitment to the Gospel of Jesus Christ, no matter where it takes him ("Africa is becoming more and more dangerous; I don't know what will happen there, but if the Lord needs me there, that's where I will stay.") or what it asks of him, was a blessing that will stay with us forever.

With the year mark closely approaching for Brent and me, our focus is always, "Are we spending our time doing those things that are the most important?"  Being busy is very easy here; there are endless issues to address, needs to serve, places to go, items to check off the "to-do" list, and calls to make.  But what were we sent here to do...specifically?  Finding the answer to that has been paramount and humbling as we seek to know and fulfill our mission here.  The badge of busyness is an easy one to wear; the "bright badge" follows a path of constant seeking for a will other than our own and is far more difficult. Another slice of life comparison with our days at home, n'est pas?

Highlight of the week:
Every once in a while you just have to throw your head back and laugh a laugh that comes clear from your toes.  That happened to me a couple of weeks ago during "French study" with Brent.  The number system is SO confusing to me.  For example: the number 94 is said, 4 times 20 plus 14, and when they say the hymn numbers, or telephone numbers, or ANY types of numbers, my head just whirls trying to calculate all of that in my head to know what number they are talking about.  So, I was making Brent throw random numbers at me, speaking very quickly.  I was becoming more and more frustrated, when all of a sudden, Brent turned, looked at me and said with his twinkle, "Joan, you weren't sent here to count!"  That just struck me so funny; we both burst out laughing and immediately all the tension in the room vanished.  So true, so true, and what a relief to have that brought to my attention.  I was still laughing as I got ready for bed that night.

Lowlight of the week:
We had a great dinner and lesson with just a super investigator family; creole time, we finally ate about 8:30 or 9:00.  She made a amazing chocolate molten cake right before our eyes, popped it into the microwave for one minute, and voila, dessert was served.  Brent can't eat chocolate that late at night - no sleep for him if he does - so she wrapped his up in tin foil, and he brought it home for the next day.  It was late when we arrived home, so we put the cake on the counter top.  I know, you have heard this story before!  When we opened it the next day, it didn't just have ants on it, it was literally an ant bed...so disgusting.  The funny thing was, there was not an ant in sight anyplace else.  They knew where the goodies were.

PHOTO GALLERY:
Still up at 6:30, fighting the battle.  (He is running up those stairs in case you can't tell.)

Looks like a JoJo.

At girl's camp, right after the morning testimony meeting, I looked down and these flowers were just laying at my feet.  I reached down, pulled them up, and snapped a picture.  They are so plentiful here that it is easy not to realize they are there.  I had to pause and appreciate their beauty.

FHE games and fun with the members of St Paul. This is the branch president and his very fun wife!

This is what is left of a loaf of banana bread, and this is what we have to do to keep the ants out of it.  It is hilarious.  When we go to a branch party, you go into the kitchen to put your food on the counter and everyone's food is sitting on a plate on top of a glass.  We all know what we have to do.

A very special young woman, nonmember, who came to girl's camp.  This picture was taken at District Conference, where she attended, sang in the District Choir, and got to talk to Elder Bricknell.

The couple missionarie and the general authority and his wife after dinner.

The badges of busyness...may we all make them bright!

We love you, think of you, and appreciate you.

A Bientot!

The Castaways