Bonne Journee mes amies,
This post is totally for Brent. You all know how much he loves pretty flowers...loves planting them, caring for them, nurturing them, and watching them blossom. I remember, years ago, when a ball flew into the planter box, breaking off one of his tender marigolds, and he taped it back up with Scotch tape!
It is flower season on La Reunion; we can't even begin to describe it. Flowering bushes, trees, mounds everywhere...along the roadside, covering the hills, appearing wild, growing in gardens, exploding out of pots. I wish we could really give you a panorama shot, but our little point and shoot doesn't even begin to capture the beauty (we couldn't bring anything more powerful...too heavy). The last couple of weeks as we have driven to appointments, we would pull over, jump quickly out of the car and record the beauty. Soooooo, here are a few close ups, chosen by Brent, just for his friends at home!
Welcome to winter on La Reunion island, with gratitude and reverence for
Him who created it all.
Your friends, The Castaways
Saturday, July 20, 2013
Sunday, July 14, 2013
Thanks For a Memory and a Cockroach
Bonjour a tous; vous allez bien?
I am SO FAR BEHIND in experiences I want to share with you! It is frustrating because sometimes I have the time to post, but feel it has been too soon. "I'll wait until next week." And then next week comes and there is NO TIME AT ALL, but great moments keep happening and I lament "Nooooooo, now I can't get them all in one post." Tonight's experience is a good one, though a little lengthy, and I am anxious to share it with you.
A while ago in the photo gallery there was a picture of a young family we had to our home for dinner; just the greatest family. We met her at the boulangerie (bakery) where we buy our daily bread. That expression is a reality here. We all buy a baguette EVERY DAY because the next day they are too hard to chew. It is funny...everyone exiting the boulangerie is carrying this long baguette - or maybe thee or four - and two minutes out the door, the end is bitten off. People riding bikes have their baguette sticking out of a backpack, yep, the end is bitten off. We laughed at first, but now...out the door and the end of our baguette has, not one, but two, bites gone. It is just good; what can I say? I digressed. Our friend there and her husband lived in London for five years, so they speak excellent English, and we hit it off right away. Brent always teases her about being so sassy and she gives it right back to him. We gave the sister missionaries her name and they began visiting the family, and so did we, talking informally about the church. We invited them for dinner, but the gospel conversation didn't go anywhere. Time passed; they invited us over for dinner, and Brent told them that we would really like to tell them about why we were here. No pressure, we would still always be friends, but could we teach them about our faith? There was a different feeling in the room; they said, yes, we could begin teaching them, so we set up a Sunday night dinner appointment.
It's winter here, the flu and "gunk" season strikes here too even though the temperature is in the 70's. I came down with my yearly bout of bronchitis, but our week was so full that I really couldn't stay home and by Sunday, I was feeling like pulling the covers over my head. We had to attend church at Le Port and that morning I was thinking, "I probably should cancel tonight's appointment; I don't know if I have the energy for this," but I just had this strong feeling not to. I recalled a talk by Vaughn Featherstone about a missionary appointment he had once when he thought, "I'm so tired tonight (after a long day at work) and I have a cold. I go there and the house is a mess, the kids are noisy, no one really listens to me. I think I will cancel tonight. ' But while in the shower, he felt impressed to "buck up" and keep the appointment. He did, and when he arrived, the front room was immaculate, scriptures placed neatly on the coffee table, no children at home, and the couple waiting for his arrival so they could be taught. You know the rest of the story; it was the night that everything changed. I just kept thinking of that story and knew, somehow that there was a connection to our experience. Time for me to "buck-up," and get ready for the appointment.
The family was one-half hour late for dinner; they had been to a birthday party. Brent had faced an afternoon of challenging phone calls and I could see that he was tired as well and thinking that maybe just a short lesson would suffice, but after dinner, their small daughter snuggled on her mother's lap, quickly went to sleep and Brent started teaching them the Plan of Salvation, the WHOLE plan of salvation. It was the most amazing thing. Probing questions were asked, thoughtful answers given, feelings shared, and "real" interest shown. It was, again, the night that everything changed. Brent gave them the pamphlet on the Plan of Salvation and asked them to read it and write down any questions they might have for our next meeting together. The husband had some questions about Joseph Smith, whom we had touched on briefly. Brent turned to me, "Do we have anything on Joseph Smith in the office?" Miracle of miracles. Two days before, I opened my wardrobe door (nothing here is build in, all free standing) to witness a giant cockroach running towards me on the door. I, of course, put an end to his existence (something I would have been incapable of when we first arrived, but now didn't hesitate). But I was horrified to think that there might be others in my closet. Hot soapy water, rags, disinfectant, the whole works. Everything came out of the wardrobe and the whole thing was carefully cleaned, during which I found some things that a friend from home had sent...including a pamphlet of Joseph Smith's history and testimony in English. I thought, "I will put this in the office; you never know how we might be able to use it even though it is in English, and it is the only pamphlet we have like this." I smiled that Sunday night as I rose from the dinner table, walked exactly to where I had put it, knowing that until two days before I had forgotten it existed. We will see them this week; her aunt died last week so we were unable to meet with them, but I said to her, "Well, you know where your aunt is." She smiled, poked her finger at me and replied, "I know EXACTLY where she is." Thanks to a memory and a cockroach, and the guidance of the spirit in teaching the gospel of Jesus Christ.
Highlight of the week: Bent and I have a new game. We live on the fourth floor of our apartment building. It says that we live on the third floor because the ground floor here doesn't count, but we still have four flights of stairs to climb. There is an elevator, but we only use it when we are carrying something heavy. What happens now is, that every few days, one of us will go to the elevator. The other one smiles, the gauntlet has been thrown down. The elevator button is pushed, and when the door opens, the other person begins running up the stairs. Can the person running make it to the fourth floor before the person in the elevator arrives? It has added a new dimension to coming home!
Lowlight of the week: We were holding a recent convert meeting before District Conference. Of course, some of the people attending had children who were left on their own until the meeting ended. Three little boys were having an especially good time in the big hall where the district meeting was going to be held (we were at one end of that hall), so I got up, walked back to them and gently leaned over and said, "Vous avez besoin d'etre (you have need to be)...and I had no word for quiet; I had never needed that word. I put my fingers to my lips and said "Shush", but they just furrowed their brows and stared at me, not understanding "shush". I made a couple more attempts to find a word and then one of the boys, about eight, looked at me and said, with a little attitude, "Vous avez besoin de dictionaire." (You can translate that!) I thought, " You are mouthy, but you are exactly right!"
PHOTO GALLERY:
Thank you for your prayers for us. We certainly recognize them and their power in our daily activities here. And for today... thanks for a memory and a cockroach......
With all our love and gratitude for the blessing that we share,
The Castaways
I am SO FAR BEHIND in experiences I want to share with you! It is frustrating because sometimes I have the time to post, but feel it has been too soon. "I'll wait until next week." And then next week comes and there is NO TIME AT ALL, but great moments keep happening and I lament "Nooooooo, now I can't get them all in one post." Tonight's experience is a good one, though a little lengthy, and I am anxious to share it with you.
A while ago in the photo gallery there was a picture of a young family we had to our home for dinner; just the greatest family. We met her at the boulangerie (bakery) where we buy our daily bread. That expression is a reality here. We all buy a baguette EVERY DAY because the next day they are too hard to chew. It is funny...everyone exiting the boulangerie is carrying this long baguette - or maybe thee or four - and two minutes out the door, the end is bitten off. People riding bikes have their baguette sticking out of a backpack, yep, the end is bitten off. We laughed at first, but now...out the door and the end of our baguette has, not one, but two, bites gone. It is just good; what can I say? I digressed. Our friend there and her husband lived in London for five years, so they speak excellent English, and we hit it off right away. Brent always teases her about being so sassy and she gives it right back to him. We gave the sister missionaries her name and they began visiting the family, and so did we, talking informally about the church. We invited them for dinner, but the gospel conversation didn't go anywhere. Time passed; they invited us over for dinner, and Brent told them that we would really like to tell them about why we were here. No pressure, we would still always be friends, but could we teach them about our faith? There was a different feeling in the room; they said, yes, we could begin teaching them, so we set up a Sunday night dinner appointment.
It's winter here, the flu and "gunk" season strikes here too even though the temperature is in the 70's. I came down with my yearly bout of bronchitis, but our week was so full that I really couldn't stay home and by Sunday, I was feeling like pulling the covers over my head. We had to attend church at Le Port and that morning I was thinking, "I probably should cancel tonight's appointment; I don't know if I have the energy for this," but I just had this strong feeling not to. I recalled a talk by Vaughn Featherstone about a missionary appointment he had once when he thought, "I'm so tired tonight (after a long day at work) and I have a cold. I go there and the house is a mess, the kids are noisy, no one really listens to me. I think I will cancel tonight. ' But while in the shower, he felt impressed to "buck up" and keep the appointment. He did, and when he arrived, the front room was immaculate, scriptures placed neatly on the coffee table, no children at home, and the couple waiting for his arrival so they could be taught. You know the rest of the story; it was the night that everything changed. I just kept thinking of that story and knew, somehow that there was a connection to our experience. Time for me to "buck-up," and get ready for the appointment.
The family was one-half hour late for dinner; they had been to a birthday party. Brent had faced an afternoon of challenging phone calls and I could see that he was tired as well and thinking that maybe just a short lesson would suffice, but after dinner, their small daughter snuggled on her mother's lap, quickly went to sleep and Brent started teaching them the Plan of Salvation, the WHOLE plan of salvation. It was the most amazing thing. Probing questions were asked, thoughtful answers given, feelings shared, and "real" interest shown. It was, again, the night that everything changed. Brent gave them the pamphlet on the Plan of Salvation and asked them to read it and write down any questions they might have for our next meeting together. The husband had some questions about Joseph Smith, whom we had touched on briefly. Brent turned to me, "Do we have anything on Joseph Smith in the office?" Miracle of miracles. Two days before, I opened my wardrobe door (nothing here is build in, all free standing) to witness a giant cockroach running towards me on the door. I, of course, put an end to his existence (something I would have been incapable of when we first arrived, but now didn't hesitate). But I was horrified to think that there might be others in my closet. Hot soapy water, rags, disinfectant, the whole works. Everything came out of the wardrobe and the whole thing was carefully cleaned, during which I found some things that a friend from home had sent...including a pamphlet of Joseph Smith's history and testimony in English. I thought, "I will put this in the office; you never know how we might be able to use it even though it is in English, and it is the only pamphlet we have like this." I smiled that Sunday night as I rose from the dinner table, walked exactly to where I had put it, knowing that until two days before I had forgotten it existed. We will see them this week; her aunt died last week so we were unable to meet with them, but I said to her, "Well, you know where your aunt is." She smiled, poked her finger at me and replied, "I know EXACTLY where she is." Thanks to a memory and a cockroach, and the guidance of the spirit in teaching the gospel of Jesus Christ.
Highlight of the week: Bent and I have a new game. We live on the fourth floor of our apartment building. It says that we live on the third floor because the ground floor here doesn't count, but we still have four flights of stairs to climb. There is an elevator, but we only use it when we are carrying something heavy. What happens now is, that every few days, one of us will go to the elevator. The other one smiles, the gauntlet has been thrown down. The elevator button is pushed, and when the door opens, the other person begins running up the stairs. Can the person running make it to the fourth floor before the person in the elevator arrives? It has added a new dimension to coming home!
Lowlight of the week: We were holding a recent convert meeting before District Conference. Of course, some of the people attending had children who were left on their own until the meeting ended. Three little boys were having an especially good time in the big hall where the district meeting was going to be held (we were at one end of that hall), so I got up, walked back to them and gently leaned over and said, "Vous avez besoin d'etre (you have need to be)...and I had no word for quiet; I had never needed that word. I put my fingers to my lips and said "Shush", but they just furrowed their brows and stared at me, not understanding "shush". I made a couple more attempts to find a word and then one of the boys, about eight, looked at me and said, with a little attitude, "Vous avez besoin de dictionaire." (You can translate that!) I thought, " You are mouthy, but you are exactly right!"
PHOTO GALLERY:
| We were with a member family having dinner. I looked behind me and these bananas we just hanging there, so I thought of the photo gallery. |
| P-day activity with the North District. Our district leader, from Tahiti, really knows how to barbeque; it was delicious. |
| Banan at the Friday market. You can't really tell, but these are only about 3-4 inches long and are they ever good! You get 16 of them for 2 euros. |
| Elder Heap being Elder Heap. This man approached him and asked, "Are you a minister?" What a blessing each day is...certainly not easy, but a great blessing to be here. |
Thank you for your prayers for us. We certainly recognize them and their power in our daily activities here. And for today... thanks for a memory and a cockroach......
With all our love and gratitude for the blessing that we share,
The Castaways
Saturday, June 22, 2013
The Things We Don't Know...For Now
Bonjour notre famille et nos amis chez nous, ca va?
Tonight we are going to gaze into the night (if the sky is clear) and enjoy the "Super Moon" reflected on the Indian Ocean. The Super Moon: when the full moon coincides with the closest approach the moon makes to earth during its elliptical orbit. I don't know if tonight's moon will really be any different than other beautiful full moons we try to always appreciate, but it will be our only occasion to have this opportunity here, in the southern hemisphere, like so many other experiences we are blessed with each day. Is the moon bigger, brighter? We don't know...yet. So many things we don't know...yet.
Last Sunday, we visited the branch in St. Pierre and had the pleasure of dining with a very special member there. She is Chinese, about seventy-eight years old, the branch Primary president, and probably one of the most active missionaries on the island. A delightful dynamo. During the course of the meal, she looked at all of us and asked to share "une petite histoire" (a small story) with us, some of which we knew and some of which were unfamiliar. Her brother, with his wife and very young family, was living in France during the seventies, going to school. He was walking down the street and saw a handmade sign which read, "Families can be together forever". Interested, he approached the missionaries holding the sign and began asking them questions. They taught him the gospel, and later, before he returned to his home on La Reunion, he and his wife were baptized. When he returned, he taught his sister the gospel (our hostess) and she and her family were the first members baptized on this island. President Edmonds of the International Mission was assigned here around that time, and missionary work really began. The brother was the first branch president, later the first district president, and is now the patriarch, an icon here of faith and leadership. Fast forward about, oh, about twenty years. The brother, wanting his children to have a good education and friends in the church, sent his oldest daughter to BYU. She was on campus one day and someone called out her full - first and last - name. A BYU professor, walking along, heard that name, recognized it from years ago (remember, it is a Chinese name), and literally ran over to her. "Is your name.......?" "Yes." "Do you know (the brother's name)?" "Yes, he is my father." "Are you a member of the church?" With palms up in surprise, "Of course! We are ALL members of the church. There are three branches on Reunion now." The man was awestruck. He was one of the initial missionaries to teach the young investigator in France, had been transferred and had gone home before the baptism, and had never known that the man had accepted the Gospel. He had baptized no one on his mission, and although it had been a great experience for him, had always felt unsuccessful in that area. When the brother came to America, probably for his daughters graduation, I really don't know, the two men reunited and shared their stories. I looked over at the two elders with us, realizing that their feelings were much like the young elder who left France not knowing until years later...yet...what seeds had been planted and what fruit produced from one small handwritten sign and many evening lessons. There are so many things we don't know...yet...that they don't know...yet...maybe not known even in this lifetime, but our prayer was that the elders were taught by the Spirit the lesson of the effort, not always just the seemingly end result, and the power of time and personal commitment in changing the lives of others. There are many things we don't know...yet.
Lowlight of the week: One of our outstanding zone leaders had reached the conclusion of his time here. President and Sister Adams flew in for the departure dinner. Everyone was excited for a wonderful evening together. It was a smaller dinner this time; only one elder leaving, which is rare, so the dinner included him and his companion, the Adams, and us. SO FUN; I love these dinners! Fresh flowers from the morning market on the table, a yummy menu planned, with a couple of things I knew he especially liked: salad with deviled eggs. We had a prayer and I excused myself to finish the main course while everyone ate their salads. I returned with the rest of the meal as everyone was finishing up the salad, and I began eating mine. It tasted great, but "crunch, crunch" my teeth kept encountering grit; what IS this? The lettuce had been washed. Well maybe it was just mine... Brent cleared the salad plates and we met in our tiny kitchen. "Was your salad gritty?" He smiled. "Well, let me put it this way, I could hear President Adams crunching like he was eating sand." OH NO...oh, well; like Scarlett O'Hara, "I'll worry about that tomorrow!"
Highlight of the week: You know how every once in a while things just happen right? We had one of those times the day after the departure dinner when we took the elder to the airport. It had been a great day. He had worked right up to the end orienting four new missionaries that had arrived that morning, got himself packed and off we all headed to the airport, the new zone leader companionship, the Adams, and us. We took photos, hugged, said our goodbyes, and watched him as he reached the security check-in. Perfect. Oh, oh, he is searching through his pockets; NOW he is searching through his carry-on; now he is RE-searching his carry-on; something is definitely WRONG. He walks back to us. "I don't have my wallet and it has my identification card in it." (along with a credit card, about 400 euros, a temple recommend signed by his mission president, etc) He could check-in without his identification card, but didn't want to loose his wallet. My thoughts: all of those things can be replaced, but I don't want the memory of his last hours - not to mention his flight home - to be stress-filled. The questions: when did you last have it, etc? Brent, never being one to be indecisive, asked, "What is the last moment you can check in?" then turned to the zone leaders and said, "Go home as fast as you can without breaking any laws and see if it is there." Zoom, off they went. Waiting...waiting...waiting; silent prayers all around. Phone rings. Brent is expressionless; looks at the elder; still no expression, time stands still; we are all breathless. BIG SMILE. "They have it and they are on their way. " The biggest sigh of relief I have ever heard. Wallet delivered at the curb...happy elder rechecking in...wallet in pocket! THANK YOU!
PHOTO GALLERY:
Love,
The Castaways
Tonight we are going to gaze into the night (if the sky is clear) and enjoy the "Super Moon" reflected on the Indian Ocean. The Super Moon: when the full moon coincides with the closest approach the moon makes to earth during its elliptical orbit. I don't know if tonight's moon will really be any different than other beautiful full moons we try to always appreciate, but it will be our only occasion to have this opportunity here, in the southern hemisphere, like so many other experiences we are blessed with each day. Is the moon bigger, brighter? We don't know...yet. So many things we don't know...yet.
Last Sunday, we visited the branch in St. Pierre and had the pleasure of dining with a very special member there. She is Chinese, about seventy-eight years old, the branch Primary president, and probably one of the most active missionaries on the island. A delightful dynamo. During the course of the meal, she looked at all of us and asked to share "une petite histoire" (a small story) with us, some of which we knew and some of which were unfamiliar. Her brother, with his wife and very young family, was living in France during the seventies, going to school. He was walking down the street and saw a handmade sign which read, "Families can be together forever". Interested, he approached the missionaries holding the sign and began asking them questions. They taught him the gospel, and later, before he returned to his home on La Reunion, he and his wife were baptized. When he returned, he taught his sister the gospel (our hostess) and she and her family were the first members baptized on this island. President Edmonds of the International Mission was assigned here around that time, and missionary work really began. The brother was the first branch president, later the first district president, and is now the patriarch, an icon here of faith and leadership. Fast forward about, oh, about twenty years. The brother, wanting his children to have a good education and friends in the church, sent his oldest daughter to BYU. She was on campus one day and someone called out her full - first and last - name. A BYU professor, walking along, heard that name, recognized it from years ago (remember, it is a Chinese name), and literally ran over to her. "Is your name.......?" "Yes." "Do you know (the brother's name)?" "Yes, he is my father." "Are you a member of the church?" With palms up in surprise, "Of course! We are ALL members of the church. There are three branches on Reunion now." The man was awestruck. He was one of the initial missionaries to teach the young investigator in France, had been transferred and had gone home before the baptism, and had never known that the man had accepted the Gospel. He had baptized no one on his mission, and although it had been a great experience for him, had always felt unsuccessful in that area. When the brother came to America, probably for his daughters graduation, I really don't know, the two men reunited and shared their stories. I looked over at the two elders with us, realizing that their feelings were much like the young elder who left France not knowing until years later...yet...what seeds had been planted and what fruit produced from one small handwritten sign and many evening lessons. There are so many things we don't know...yet...that they don't know...yet...maybe not known even in this lifetime, but our prayer was that the elders were taught by the Spirit the lesson of the effort, not always just the seemingly end result, and the power of time and personal commitment in changing the lives of others. There are many things we don't know...yet.
Lowlight of the week: One of our outstanding zone leaders had reached the conclusion of his time here. President and Sister Adams flew in for the departure dinner. Everyone was excited for a wonderful evening together. It was a smaller dinner this time; only one elder leaving, which is rare, so the dinner included him and his companion, the Adams, and us. SO FUN; I love these dinners! Fresh flowers from the morning market on the table, a yummy menu planned, with a couple of things I knew he especially liked: salad with deviled eggs. We had a prayer and I excused myself to finish the main course while everyone ate their salads. I returned with the rest of the meal as everyone was finishing up the salad, and I began eating mine. It tasted great, but "crunch, crunch" my teeth kept encountering grit; what IS this? The lettuce had been washed. Well maybe it was just mine... Brent cleared the salad plates and we met in our tiny kitchen. "Was your salad gritty?" He smiled. "Well, let me put it this way, I could hear President Adams crunching like he was eating sand." OH NO...oh, well; like Scarlett O'Hara, "I'll worry about that tomorrow!"
Highlight of the week: You know how every once in a while things just happen right? We had one of those times the day after the departure dinner when we took the elder to the airport. It had been a great day. He had worked right up to the end orienting four new missionaries that had arrived that morning, got himself packed and off we all headed to the airport, the new zone leader companionship, the Adams, and us. We took photos, hugged, said our goodbyes, and watched him as he reached the security check-in. Perfect. Oh, oh, he is searching through his pockets; NOW he is searching through his carry-on; now he is RE-searching his carry-on; something is definitely WRONG. He walks back to us. "I don't have my wallet and it has my identification card in it." (along with a credit card, about 400 euros, a temple recommend signed by his mission president, etc) He could check-in without his identification card, but didn't want to loose his wallet. My thoughts: all of those things can be replaced, but I don't want the memory of his last hours - not to mention his flight home - to be stress-filled. The questions: when did you last have it, etc? Brent, never being one to be indecisive, asked, "What is the last moment you can check in?" then turned to the zone leaders and said, "Go home as fast as you can without breaking any laws and see if it is there." Zoom, off they went. Waiting...waiting...waiting; silent prayers all around. Phone rings. Brent is expressionless; looks at the elder; still no expression, time stands still; we are all breathless. BIG SMILE. "They have it and they are on their way. " The biggest sigh of relief I have ever heard. Wallet delivered at the curb...happy elder rechecking in...wallet in pocket! THANK YOU!
PHOTO GALLERY:
| Lunch with the missionaries on Mauritius...in rupees which comes to about $21.00, but you gulp when you first see the bill. |
| The young man in the picture was baptized a few months ago and now his sister wants to become a member. |
| Wednesday's new addition to the missionary force on La Reunion. I think I'm getting shorter! |
| The jet-lagged new elders with their companions and the zone leaders. |
| Leaving for home and these are his GOOD shoes! |
| The wallet is found; relief for all |
| Primary in St Pierre with our hostess. |
| Happy Birthday to you! |
Love,
The Castaways
Sunday, June 9, 2013
The Bright Badge of Busyness
Bonjour et bisous a tous,
Bisous: the French custom of kissing EVERYONE on both cheeks upon greeting. I can't bisous men and Brent can't bisous women and WON'T bisous men, but I have to say that I have become quite comfortable with the bisous...so if I kiss both your cheeks without thinking when I first get home, be patient; I've been doing it for eighteen months! There are probably some other customs we have picked up - like using one's knife to push food onto one's fork - that we don't even think about now which will be apparent later when we are the only ones doing it; interesting adjustments. Many things to think about.
I have been thinking a lot lately about "the bright badge of busyness" since we just finished many days being extremely so. We had a six hour Missionary Zone Conference with the mission president, lunch included, of course. The General Authority arrived that evening (we were misinformed that his plane would touch down at 7:30, but he really didn't arrive until 11:30 PM), which kicked off two days of meetings, interviews, and several sessions of leadership training, plus the Saturday night and Sunday general sessions of District Conference. An extremely tight schedule with many items to cover and people to see...the bright badge of busyness. We were so impressed and touched with all that he had to do, Elder Bricknell never seemed hurried. He took time to greet everyone personally, with warmth and a big bear hug. His demeanor radiated love for what he was doing and enthusiasm for every meeting, no matter how short or how long. Saturday morning, he asked to meet with those who were struggling, which led to a very personal meeting for six hours after the Sunday session, to help solve a problem that had existed on this island for several years. I guess what I am saying is that he took the time to address those issues that really had deep meaning for some people here, not just to address the "busy"agenda. He and his wife's charming South African accent, joyous laughter, and wise counsel boomed in our ears for two days. The example he left with us of total commitment to the Gospel of Jesus Christ, no matter where it takes him ("Africa is becoming more and more dangerous; I don't know what will happen there, but if the Lord needs me there, that's where I will stay.") or what it asks of him, was a blessing that will stay with us forever.
With the year mark closely approaching for Brent and me, our focus is always, "Are we spending our time doing those things that are the most important?" Being busy is very easy here; there are endless issues to address, needs to serve, places to go, items to check off the "to-do" list, and calls to make. But what were we sent here to do...specifically? Finding the answer to that has been paramount and humbling as we seek to know and fulfill our mission here. The badge of busyness is an easy one to wear; the "bright badge" follows a path of constant seeking for a will other than our own and is far more difficult. Another slice of life comparison with our days at home, n'est pas?
Highlight of the week:
Every once in a while you just have to throw your head back and laugh a laugh that comes clear from your toes. That happened to me a couple of weeks ago during "French study" with Brent. The number system is SO confusing to me. For example: the number 94 is said, 4 times 20 plus 14, and when they say the hymn numbers, or telephone numbers, or ANY types of numbers, my head just whirls trying to calculate all of that in my head to know what number they are talking about. So, I was making Brent throw random numbers at me, speaking very quickly. I was becoming more and more frustrated, when all of a sudden, Brent turned, looked at me and said with his twinkle, "Joan, you weren't sent here to count!" That just struck me so funny; we both burst out laughing and immediately all the tension in the room vanished. So true, so true, and what a relief to have that brought to my attention. I was still laughing as I got ready for bed that night.
Lowlight of the week:
We had a great dinner and lesson with just a super investigator family; creole time, we finally ate about 8:30 or 9:00. She made a amazing chocolate molten cake right before our eyes, popped it into the microwave for one minute, and voila, dessert was served. Brent can't eat chocolate that late at night - no sleep for him if he does - so she wrapped his up in tin foil, and he brought it home for the next day. It was late when we arrived home, so we put the cake on the counter top. I know, you have heard this story before! When we opened it the next day, it didn't just have ants on it, it was literally an ant bed...so disgusting. The funny thing was, there was not an ant in sight anyplace else. They knew where the goodies were.
PHOTO GALLERY:
Bisous: the French custom of kissing EVERYONE on both cheeks upon greeting. I can't bisous men and Brent can't bisous women and WON'T bisous men, but I have to say that I have become quite comfortable with the bisous...so if I kiss both your cheeks without thinking when I first get home, be patient; I've been doing it for eighteen months! There are probably some other customs we have picked up - like using one's knife to push food onto one's fork - that we don't even think about now which will be apparent later when we are the only ones doing it; interesting adjustments. Many things to think about.
I have been thinking a lot lately about "the bright badge of busyness" since we just finished many days being extremely so. We had a six hour Missionary Zone Conference with the mission president, lunch included, of course. The General Authority arrived that evening (we were misinformed that his plane would touch down at 7:30, but he really didn't arrive until 11:30 PM), which kicked off two days of meetings, interviews, and several sessions of leadership training, plus the Saturday night and Sunday general sessions of District Conference. An extremely tight schedule with many items to cover and people to see...the bright badge of busyness. We were so impressed and touched with all that he had to do, Elder Bricknell never seemed hurried. He took time to greet everyone personally, with warmth and a big bear hug. His demeanor radiated love for what he was doing and enthusiasm for every meeting, no matter how short or how long. Saturday morning, he asked to meet with those who were struggling, which led to a very personal meeting for six hours after the Sunday session, to help solve a problem that had existed on this island for several years. I guess what I am saying is that he took the time to address those issues that really had deep meaning for some people here, not just to address the "busy"agenda. He and his wife's charming South African accent, joyous laughter, and wise counsel boomed in our ears for two days. The example he left with us of total commitment to the Gospel of Jesus Christ, no matter where it takes him ("Africa is becoming more and more dangerous; I don't know what will happen there, but if the Lord needs me there, that's where I will stay.") or what it asks of him, was a blessing that will stay with us forever.
With the year mark closely approaching for Brent and me, our focus is always, "Are we spending our time doing those things that are the most important?" Being busy is very easy here; there are endless issues to address, needs to serve, places to go, items to check off the "to-do" list, and calls to make. But what were we sent here to do...specifically? Finding the answer to that has been paramount and humbling as we seek to know and fulfill our mission here. The badge of busyness is an easy one to wear; the "bright badge" follows a path of constant seeking for a will other than our own and is far more difficult. Another slice of life comparison with our days at home, n'est pas?
Highlight of the week:
Every once in a while you just have to throw your head back and laugh a laugh that comes clear from your toes. That happened to me a couple of weeks ago during "French study" with Brent. The number system is SO confusing to me. For example: the number 94 is said, 4 times 20 plus 14, and when they say the hymn numbers, or telephone numbers, or ANY types of numbers, my head just whirls trying to calculate all of that in my head to know what number they are talking about. So, I was making Brent throw random numbers at me, speaking very quickly. I was becoming more and more frustrated, when all of a sudden, Brent turned, looked at me and said with his twinkle, "Joan, you weren't sent here to count!" That just struck me so funny; we both burst out laughing and immediately all the tension in the room vanished. So true, so true, and what a relief to have that brought to my attention. I was still laughing as I got ready for bed that night.
Lowlight of the week:
We had a great dinner and lesson with just a super investigator family; creole time, we finally ate about 8:30 or 9:00. She made a amazing chocolate molten cake right before our eyes, popped it into the microwave for one minute, and voila, dessert was served. Brent can't eat chocolate that late at night - no sleep for him if he does - so she wrapped his up in tin foil, and he brought it home for the next day. It was late when we arrived home, so we put the cake on the counter top. I know, you have heard this story before! When we opened it the next day, it didn't just have ants on it, it was literally an ant bed...so disgusting. The funny thing was, there was not an ant in sight anyplace else. They knew where the goodies were.
PHOTO GALLERY:
| Still up at 6:30, fighting the battle. (He is running up those stairs in case you can't tell.) |
| Looks like a JoJo. |
| FHE games and fun with the members of St Paul. This is the branch president and his very fun wife! |
| A very special young woman, nonmember, who came to girl's camp. This picture was taken at District Conference, where she attended, sang in the District Choir, and got to talk to Elder Bricknell. |
Wednesday, May 22, 2013
It ALWAYS works!
Bonjour, ca va?
Ahhhh, I can't believe it has been three weeks and one day since our last post; the weeks are like days here. Brent says that the only time he knows what day it is when he is taking the sacrament; all the other days blur into each other. Where to begin?...one of our missionaries had hernia surgery; we had to purchase four new beds (with many more to follow); all of the missionaries on the island were transferred to new areas with new companions; one of our zone leaders was transferred to Mauritius; a new sister missionary arrived from France; we had to renew our French visas because the year mark is coming up - can you believe that? - and tomorrow the mission president arrives for a six day stay, with a member of the Area Presidency arriving on Friday for an all-island District Conference. That, however, will be another post; tonight I want to talk about something tres, tres bien...GIRL'S CAMP LA REUNION STYLE!
Yes, it's true. Here we are, far from home, still sleeping on the hard ground (we had no pads and the ground was like concrete...OUCH!) trying to keep the sand out of our tent. I helped the YW's district president obtain camp manuals from Salt Lake and when she asked me if I would like to attend with them, I jumped at the chance. Brent, being the great sport and support that he is, came along in a Priesthood capacity and, for three days, we were "back in the saddle", but this time, we were not in the mountains, we were at the beach. It was a totally different experience as far as the physical facilities: we were in a huge secured, fenced area with probably 500 other tents and who knows how many campers. Kids were riding bicycles and roller skating on the cement paths, but the most bizarre thing was that when we pulled into camp, there was a refrigerator right in the middle of our camp. I couldn't believe it. The young women leaders had talked someone from La Port into picking up the fridge from the church and hauling it there on a big flatbed truck. We were living in luxury: electricity, showers, and rest rooms! We walked along the beach, swam in the ocean, played together, nobody worried about certification; it was wonderful! Brent and I will never forget the campfire on the beach under a beautiful, almost full moon and the sound of the rolling surf beyond. We arose early for sunrise services, prayed, sang hymns, shared feelings, and felt the spirit just like you do in the mountains. On the last morning, we were up early, the girls all had tousled hair and blankets wrapped around them, but were singing beautifully (they love to sing here and it is not unusual to sing four hymns - all verses - before getting started with whatever you are doing). A woman from an adjoining camp walked over and joined us, just sitting down quietly with the group. The girl next to her shared her hymn book, and she began singing along. Brent gave a beautiful spiritual message, there was more singing and then a closing prayer. We visited briefly with her and she left. About 9:00 in the morning, after everyone was packed up to leave, they all gathered for a testimony meeting. Other campers were bustling about, children were laughing, music was playing in the distance; I wondered how it would go. I learned that when young women of faith and commitment gather to share their testimonies, it ALWAYS works. It was like we were suspended in our own little grove of peace, and do you know what? The woman who had joined us early that morning, returned, listened, snuggled with a teenage son who also wandered in, and after the gathering ended, asked to have the missionaries visit with her. We gave them her number, they contacted her, and she wants to attend District Conference this weekend, where, we will be sure that she has an opportunity to visit with President Adams and Elder Bricknell, the visiting general authority. Isn't it interesting how paths and spirits connect.....
Fifteen girls, two who were nonmembers, two who were inactive, two who weren't planning on attending camp until I visited their Young Women's class and wouldn't take "No" for an answer. "You HAVE to come; we NEED you there!" Another memory to tuck away, with much love and gratitude, to remind us that everything doesn't have to follow a prescribed pattern; there are many ways to build feelings of love, unity, and faith. When we really try and then leave the rest to the Lord, it ALWAYS works.
Highlight of the week: It is coconut season here, and it is so hilarious when you unknowingly get under a coconut tree. The Tahitian missionaries, or some of the members, are frantic, "Hurry, get out from under that tree; you could be killed by a falling coconut." It seemed funny at first, but when you actually look up and see how far they would fall before hitting you, it makes total sense. I certainly watch out now!
Lowlight of the week: We have two missionaries here that we are trying to finish up visa work for so they can serve on Mauritius. It is very difficult because we are dealing with two different governments; La Reunion is French, and Mauritius is its own government, which is basically Hindu, so all applications are different. Our poor Zone Leaders are jumping through all kinds of hoops to get the work done and sometimes it takes months and months of trying. Anyway, the two elders, had to get some laboratory tests done to prove they were healthy, so the elders (who had traveled from far away), the zone leaders, and Brent and I, all went to the lab. They informed us that the technicians were on strike that day; we would have to come back tomorrow. Zone Leaders: "We can't come back tomorrow." Receptionists: "Sorry, there is nothing we can do." The ZL were dejected as they walked back to us. I looked at Brent and knew that he WAS NOT going to accept that answer. "This can play out in one of two ways," I thought as I watched him approach the desk and I knew that one of the options would not be pretty. I knew we were going to win when he had the receptionists laughing and they called the head physician down from upstairs to talk to him. The elders headed for the bathroom, cups in hand with big smiles on their faces. These kinds of situations don't ALWAYS work out, but this one worked out perfectly.
Photo gallery:
Ahhhh, I can't believe it has been three weeks and one day since our last post; the weeks are like days here. Brent says that the only time he knows what day it is when he is taking the sacrament; all the other days blur into each other. Where to begin?...one of our missionaries had hernia surgery; we had to purchase four new beds (with many more to follow); all of the missionaries on the island were transferred to new areas with new companions; one of our zone leaders was transferred to Mauritius; a new sister missionary arrived from France; we had to renew our French visas because the year mark is coming up - can you believe that? - and tomorrow the mission president arrives for a six day stay, with a member of the Area Presidency arriving on Friday for an all-island District Conference. That, however, will be another post; tonight I want to talk about something tres, tres bien...GIRL'S CAMP LA REUNION STYLE!
Yes, it's true. Here we are, far from home, still sleeping on the hard ground (we had no pads and the ground was like concrete...OUCH!) trying to keep the sand out of our tent. I helped the YW's district president obtain camp manuals from Salt Lake and when she asked me if I would like to attend with them, I jumped at the chance. Brent, being the great sport and support that he is, came along in a Priesthood capacity and, for three days, we were "back in the saddle", but this time, we were not in the mountains, we were at the beach. It was a totally different experience as far as the physical facilities: we were in a huge secured, fenced area with probably 500 other tents and who knows how many campers. Kids were riding bicycles and roller skating on the cement paths, but the most bizarre thing was that when we pulled into camp, there was a refrigerator right in the middle of our camp. I couldn't believe it. The young women leaders had talked someone from La Port into picking up the fridge from the church and hauling it there on a big flatbed truck. We were living in luxury: electricity, showers, and rest rooms! We walked along the beach, swam in the ocean, played together, nobody worried about certification; it was wonderful! Brent and I will never forget the campfire on the beach under a beautiful, almost full moon and the sound of the rolling surf beyond. We arose early for sunrise services, prayed, sang hymns, shared feelings, and felt the spirit just like you do in the mountains. On the last morning, we were up early, the girls all had tousled hair and blankets wrapped around them, but were singing beautifully (they love to sing here and it is not unusual to sing four hymns - all verses - before getting started with whatever you are doing). A woman from an adjoining camp walked over and joined us, just sitting down quietly with the group. The girl next to her shared her hymn book, and she began singing along. Brent gave a beautiful spiritual message, there was more singing and then a closing prayer. We visited briefly with her and she left. About 9:00 in the morning, after everyone was packed up to leave, they all gathered for a testimony meeting. Other campers were bustling about, children were laughing, music was playing in the distance; I wondered how it would go. I learned that when young women of faith and commitment gather to share their testimonies, it ALWAYS works. It was like we were suspended in our own little grove of peace, and do you know what? The woman who had joined us early that morning, returned, listened, snuggled with a teenage son who also wandered in, and after the gathering ended, asked to have the missionaries visit with her. We gave them her number, they contacted her, and she wants to attend District Conference this weekend, where, we will be sure that she has an opportunity to visit with President Adams and Elder Bricknell, the visiting general authority. Isn't it interesting how paths and spirits connect.....
Fifteen girls, two who were nonmembers, two who were inactive, two who weren't planning on attending camp until I visited their Young Women's class and wouldn't take "No" for an answer. "You HAVE to come; we NEED you there!" Another memory to tuck away, with much love and gratitude, to remind us that everything doesn't have to follow a prescribed pattern; there are many ways to build feelings of love, unity, and faith. When we really try and then leave the rest to the Lord, it ALWAYS works.
Highlight of the week: It is coconut season here, and it is so hilarious when you unknowingly get under a coconut tree. The Tahitian missionaries, or some of the members, are frantic, "Hurry, get out from under that tree; you could be killed by a falling coconut." It seemed funny at first, but when you actually look up and see how far they would fall before hitting you, it makes total sense. I certainly watch out now!
Lowlight of the week: We have two missionaries here that we are trying to finish up visa work for so they can serve on Mauritius. It is very difficult because we are dealing with two different governments; La Reunion is French, and Mauritius is its own government, which is basically Hindu, so all applications are different. Our poor Zone Leaders are jumping through all kinds of hoops to get the work done and sometimes it takes months and months of trying. Anyway, the two elders, had to get some laboratory tests done to prove they were healthy, so the elders (who had traveled from far away), the zone leaders, and Brent and I, all went to the lab. They informed us that the technicians were on strike that day; we would have to come back tomorrow. Zone Leaders: "We can't come back tomorrow." Receptionists: "Sorry, there is nothing we can do." The ZL were dejected as they walked back to us. I looked at Brent and knew that he WAS NOT going to accept that answer. "This can play out in one of two ways," I thought as I watched him approach the desk and I knew that one of the options would not be pretty. I knew we were going to win when he had the receptionists laughing and they called the head physician down from upstairs to talk to him. The elders headed for the bathroom, cups in hand with big smiles on their faces. These kinds of situations don't ALWAYS work out, but this one worked out perfectly.
Photo gallery:
| Okay, so explain once more how it goes! |
| Beach time after lunch. |
| If I were taller, the sun would be sitting on my finger tip and it would have been a great photo. |
| The water was warm..... |
| There it is, THE FRIDGE, and the women who got it there! |
| Isn't girl's camp just the BEST! |
| Packing up to go home..."Now tell me once more how you think this tent is supposed to fold up?" |
| The "fire-builder" on the beach |
| This is how I will always remember it. |
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